Why did I quit my job and why you should do so?

You’re like most of the people and you hate your job? I was in the same situation for years… until that point when it was enough and I collected enough courage to talk with my boss about my future and quit my job.

If you don’t know me, let me introduce myself. My name is Blaise (in my country they know me as Balázs but it’s hard to pronounce in English), a mid-20s guy from the capital of Hungary. I always wanted to be a web developer so I started this long journey when I was 6, went to an IT specific high school and got my BSc degree as an IT engineer. In 2014 I started working at a company as a frontend web developer as an intern. Then in 2015 when I got my degree I’ve become a full-time employee. Starting my road down to the hell…

I couldn’t handle it more and I quit in the end of 2017, even ditching my big dream profession.

The reasons why I quit

There are several reasons which encouraged me to quit my job and start a completely new life. Probably you will be able relate with most or all of them because they are really common.

There are bigger and smaller problems but they added up and it became too much.

No free time

Having almost no free time was one of the biggest problem. Most of the workplaces have strict rules when you have to work. It’s 9 to 5 in most places. To be honest I didn’t have this rule and I went to work every day for 10 because it was convenient for me. I worked until 6 every day, even on Fridays. 1 hour (both in morning and evening, so 2 hours) of transportation and it was already dark outside. I was also tired so I didn’t have energy to do anything, nor I had free time to do what I want.

Anxiety

Okay, this is a personal problem but strongly related to my workplace, so I am trying to be short with this. I started to feel boredom and really hated what I was working on. The projects didn’t make any sense and were like if we are building it for grandpas. It started to appear on my health too: I was shaking and hard-breathing started to appear. I wasn’t able to spend my work and free time calmly because I was anxious and shaking. Probably I will write an another post of my experiences.

More responsibility without more salary

Probably you’re familiar with this issue. There are two possible cases. First, your boss start to trust you much more than in the beginning and they give you more tasks. Secondly, colleagues quit and there won’t be enough workers, so you will have to work on their tasks too.

In my situation both cases were applied. I learnt a lot and I was to work better, faster and more in less time. Also a lot of young colleagues quit and there weren’t any new colleagues on the projects. So 2-3x more work for the same salary (or less if I count the inflation).

Almost no vacation time

I don’t know what are the rules in your country. In Hungary the base vacation time is 21 days and as you’re getting older you will get 1 extra day in every few years. It’s definitely not enough to have a rest and relax. This issue is strongly related with the next one.

I wanted to travel

A lot… but with attached to a company and a place I wasn’t able to travel too much. Even though I had the money to travel, I didn’t have enough time. So probably if you’re reading this travel blog, you feel the same and want to travel a lot.

I never loved being an employee

It’s also a common thing. You hate your boss (no offence), hate going to the office every day, hate the projects and so on…

To be honest I had a really unsuccessful online business around 2008. I was 15 but I already wanted to be an entrepreneur, just I didn’t know how should I make income with that. So it failed and I later thought I had to become an employee because everyone goes on this path… but heck no, go after your dreams and don’t do things just because everybody does.

Questions to ask before quitting your job

Do I have enough money?

Money can be a big problem if you don’t have enough. You don’t have to be a millionaire but you should have enough money to cover your daily expenses (food, bills etc.).

It’s a smart decision to have enough money at least for the next 12 months. If you’re planning to start an own business you should have even more saved money because you will need to invest money in your business.

So before quitting your job from a sudden upset you should sit and calm down and think about it. Check your bank account whether you’ve enough money, sum your expenses and create a plan about your costs. It shouldn’t take too much time and you will learn a lot and you can consider if it’s safe to quit your job right now or you should wait a few more months.

Do I need a job or should I work online?

It’s a tough question because you’re the only one who can answer this. If you’re deciding to quit your job probably you have most or all of the problems that I mentioned above. Note that if you would go to an another workplace, after a short time these problems would reappear. That’s why I don’t recommend taking another position and I encourage you to start a new life and start a more profitable online business than your current job.

I know it’s scary, I also lived through this feeling… but after a few weeks or months it becomes so much better. If you decided and you will take this huge step, I will help you on your journey. I can give you advice what business you should start and also help you build it from scratch with my advice. Stay tuned for this…

If it won’t work, will I have a backup plan?

Note that if you’re getting out of money you can always go back and take an occasional job. So if you’re afraid you will get homeless or you won’t be able to pay your bills or eat, you shouldn’t have fear of this. Just think about what can be the worst case scenario? If you have a degree you can go back and work in your profession whenever you want. If you don’t have a university degree or you need money quick, you can always go and work at a fast food restaurant because they will always need new people. But this is just the worst case and probably won’t happen.

Besides this, if you will become an employee again (which I don’t recommend), your future employers will be amazed of your courage and will be curious and ask a lot of your previous experiences.

Pros

  • I am my own boss: It’s much better that nobody tells me what should I do. Note that this can be a bad thing.
  • I have much more free time.
  • I can do whatever I want and whenever I want: For example, I can walk in the middle of the day, watch series or play video games whenever I want.
  • I can work wherever I want: I am not attached to a single place, so I can work in a mall, a co-working office, at home or I can even work from a different country.
  • I can travel or relocate to anywhere in the world without anybody notice it: As I have much more time, I can spend it with traveling.

Cons

  • Procrastination: When you don’t have deadlines set by other people it’s much easier to postpone your tasks and watch YouTube videos, scroll your news feed, etc.
  • Lack of reliable income stream in the beginning: it’s really different compared to being an employee that you won’t get salary in the beginning of the month.
  • I work much more: I have much more time so I fill my empty hours with working, which isn’t that bad because I am working on projects which I truly love.
  • You’ll experience fear, uncertainty, and occasional boredom: It’s really scary when you are starting a new life because most of the things will be uncertain. When you have a lot of things to do and you don’t know what you should start with, you will get bored and start procrastinating.

Conclusion

So as a conclusion I can say that quitting your job is not for everybody. In my opinion quitting your job has more pros than cons and it was one of my best decision ever.

Just be grateful for your experiences, even for good and bad things. You can learn a lot from them.

 

If you have questions, let me know in the comments.

2018-03-09T22:27:29+00:00 By |Blog post, Motivation, Online Business, Travel|

5 Comments

  1. Rick March 17, 2018 at 3:06 PM - Reply

    Hey Blaise!
    Thank you for sharing your story and summarizing the pros and cons. I am right before making this huge decision because I really hate my current job. I was also able to relate with your situation too.
    Can you give me some advice how to make this process easier?

    Thanks,
    Rick

    • Blaise March 18, 2018 at 7:33 PM - Reply

      Hello Rick,

      First of all thank you for writing your comment, I appreciate you’re reading my blog and being active here.
      There are some questions I would ask before taking the step and quit your job.
      The first one is, do you have enough money to live without any problems for at least a year, but instead for 2? Calculate your expenses as mentioned in the post above.
      Also ask it from yourself whether you know what will you do after you become unemployed? I mean you will find another job or start your online business.

      If you know everything mentioned above and you’re pretty sure you want to move on, DO IT. I know it’s horrifying but you have to take this step if you’re suffering.

      Have a nice day and good luck,
      Blaise 🙂

      • Rick March 19, 2018 at 11:16 PM - Reply

        Thank you so much for you advice.
        I have been thinking in the past few days… a lot… and I am ready to start my online business.
        I have already signed up to your business waiting list and really waiting for it.

  2. SannyKip December 8, 2018 at 2:07 PM - Reply

    Make a more new posts please 🙂
    ___
    Sanny

    • Blaise December 12, 2018 at 12:57 AM - Reply

      Dear Sanny,

      New posts are coming in the next weeks. Stay tuned! 🙂

      Blaise

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